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asked questions about post partum doula service:
How Does a Doula Differ from a Baby Nurse?
Unlike a baby nurse (not usually an RN) who is
there only to care for the infant, a doula focuses on the needs
of the new mother as well as the newborn. She is there to nurture
the mother by offering practical assistance as well as emotional
support, enabling you to recover faster and feel more confident
in meeting the challenges a new baby brings.
Your doula provides skilled breastfeeding support
and guidance in all aspects of newborn care whether that means demonstrating
swaddling, bathing and burping techniques or caring for the baby
so you can sleep or get some fresh air. She can also tend to practical
chores, as time permits, such as shopping, cooking nutritious meals,
tidying up, laundry, errands and caring for siblings.
Above all, a doula is a mentor who answers your
questions and provides much needed assurance in a gentle, non-judgmental
way, allowing you to develop your own unique parenting style. She
comes to your home between 3 and 5 hours a day.
How Much Time Will We Need And How Do We Schedule It?
Our clients contract for a minimum of 16 hours
to be used 4 hours a day every day or every other day. After the
initial 16 hours, you can arrange for extra service at a minimum
of 9 hours per week. Some families use a total 16 hours of care,
others use 80 hours or more over the entire six week postpartum
period. You can start the service when you first return from the
hospital, when your mother or baby nurse leaves, or when your partner
returns to work. You must use the first sixteen hours within a two
week period of time. After that, additional hours must be scheduled
by Friday for the following week. If you know you are going to want
uninterrupted service for a number of weeks, I recommend that you
discuss specific arrangements with me in advance. Otherwise, I cannot
guarantee you the same doula each week.
Can I Interview a Doula?
Scheduling requires quite a juggling act as you
can imagine. That is why I prefer you to interview your prospective
doula by phone rather than in person. It is not always possible
to guarantee that the doula you interview will be able to work with
you when the time comes because of the uncertainty of "due
dates". I have deliberately kept my company small to insure
you the best quality of service and I also try to provide my doulas
with a steady flow of work. Each woman has been trained by me and
has extensive experience as well as many references for you to call.
Most of my clients are very satisfied after a phone interview with
one or two doulas. We all provide backup for one another when scheduling
difficulties arise due to a very early or very late birth. Once
you have reserved my doula service, you will be provided with a
doula to help you regardless of when your baby arrives.
For information on our rates and how to register
for a doula from In A Family Way, please
contact me at 212-877-8112 or email me at inafamilyway@kealy.com.
For some great feedback from our clients,
read through my website.
I look forward to helping you through this amazing
and challenging time!
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